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Conscious Curiosity with Ansley

wife, mom + lifelong learner. ✨ normal person who simplifies expert insights on relationships, faith, & psychology for other normal people. see you in your inbox 2x/mo!

On what our brains care about most

Welcome to Conscious Curiosity, where we break down concepts & insights from experts for normal people, particularly insights into relationships, faith & psychology. Basically cliff notes for grown-ups! Here's this month's "zoom in" edition: On what our brains care about most Conscious Curiosity: Edition No. 7 {psychology} What do our brains care about more than anything else?Neuroception, explained. Our brains essentially have two modes: connection or protection. It's like a light switch—on...

On being "Good Enough" (and other aspirations)

Welcome to Conscious Curiosity, where we break down concepts & insights from experts for normal people, particularly insights into relationships, faith & psychology. Basically cliff notes for grown-ups! Here's this month's "zoom in" edition: On being "Good Enough" (and other aspirations) Conscious Curiosity: Edition No. 11 {psychology + relationships} How "Good Enough " is actually *exactly* enough, both in parenting and in life: We've been learning this summer about the neuroception of...

The Power of Knowing What's In Your Hand

Welcome to Conscious Curiosity, where we break down concepts & insights from experts for normal people. Basically cliff notes for grown-ups! Here's this month's "zoom out" edition, where we think about how we think with bite-sized wisdom from experts & thought leaders. The power of knowing what's in your hand Conscious Curiosity: Edition No. 10: The kind of work God usually calls you to is the kind of work (a) that you need most to do and (b) that the world most needs to have done. The place...

How our brains perceive & create reality

Welcome to Conscious Curiosity, where we break down concepts & insights from experts for normal people, particularly insights into relationships, faith & psychology. Basically cliff notes for grown-ups! Here's this month's "zoom in" edition: How our brains perceive & create reality Conscious Curiosity: Edition No. 9 {psychology} How do our brains combine both the past & the present to perceive "reality" in a given moment? Neuroception, explained—Part II: We learned in the 7/1 CC about...

The Power of Wounded Healers

Welcome to Conscious Curiosity, where we break down concepts & insights from experts for normal people. Here's this month's "zoom out" edition, where we think about how we think with quick insights from experts & thought leaders.Basically cliff notes for grown-ups! The power of wounded healers Conscious Curiosity: Edition No. 8 {Henri Nouwen quote #1}: Nobody escapes being wounded. We are all wounded people, whether physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually. The main question is not,...

Gut feelings: the power of trusting our intuition

Welcome to Conscious Curiosity: "zoom out" edition—a monthly email that helps us think about how we think with quick insights from experts & thought leaders. Basically cliff notes for grown-ups! Gut feelings: the power of trusting our intuition Conscious Curiosity: Edition No. 6 Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking by Malcolm Gladwell {excerpt }: "We really only trust conscious decision making. But there are moments, particularly in times of stress, when haste does not make waste,...

On sozo

Welcome to Conscious Curiosity: "zoom in" edition—a monthly email that offers useful tidbits from the experts on relationships, faith & psychology. Basically cliff notes for grown-ups! On sozo Conscious Curiosity: Edition No. 5 {faith} How to understand the Greek word for salvation: “sozo,” explained. How you ever wondered what the New Testament authors meant when they wrote about salvation? Or what they wanted to convey to their audience when they wrote verses like Matthew 18:11: “For the...

Ultimate freedom: the power to choose under any circumstance

Welcome to Conscious Curiosity: "zoom out" edition—monthly email that helps us think about how we think with quick insights from experts & thought leaders. Basically cliff notes for grown-ups! Ultimate freedom: the power to choose under any circumstance Conscious Curiosity: Edition No. 4 Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl {excerpt}: "We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may...

On safety, attunement & co-regulation

Welcome to Conscious Curiosity: "zoom in" edition - a monthly email that offers useful tidbits from the experts on relationships, faith & psychology. Basically cliff notes for grown-ups! On safety, attunement & co-regulation Conscious Curiosity: Edition No. 3 {relationships} How to make any relationship more secure: the 4 S’s, explained In their book “The Power of Showing Up: How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired,” Interpersonal Neurobiology experts...

Mental fitness: the power of knowing what you don't know

Welcome to Conscious Curiosity: "zoom out" edition - a monthly email that helps us think about how we think with quick insights from experts & thought leaders. Basically cliff notes for grown-ups! Mental fitness: the power of knowing what you don't know Conscious Curiosity: Edition No. 2 Think Again by Adam Grant {excerpt}: "It starts with intellectual humility - knowing what we don't know. We should all be able to make a long list of areas where we're ignorant. Mine include art, financial...

wife, mom + lifelong learner. ✨ normal person who simplifies expert insights on relationships, faith, & psychology for other normal people. see you in your inbox 2x/mo!